Kit for Kat!

Swimming Tears
Posted By SLK on Wednesday, September 19, 2012   { 0 Comment(s) }
No one and I mean NO ONE can scold my kids when I am not there and for something which is not entirely their fault. I can go to all lengths to protect my girls, fight like an animal when it is not their fault. This is exactly what happened just a few moments ago...

Kit is a great swimmer for her 5 years of age but this age also has its moods sometimes great and sometimes a true troublemaker. Kat on the other hand, is a serious swimmer who prides in doing laps and endurance swimming. What this means is that when I send the two swimming to the pool downstairs, some days are just perfect (mostly when I am watching them) or some days are miserable (mostly when our nanny is watching them) and Kit comes home crying or sulking with a vow to never go swimming with Kat again (a vow which is easily forgotten by the end of the minute!)

So, today when they came back with Kit howling at the top of her voice, I did not think it was anything different till Kat explained the whole situation to me. Apparently, Kit was getting bored in the pool today as there was not enough space so she started splashing Kat and pulling on her bathing suit and generally causing her trouble. At this point the lifeguard beckoned Kit with her finger (!) and scolded her and warned her that she can never enter the pool again if she behaves this way. What way, may I ask? Kit knows when she is being scolded and does not take it well when she thinks she is not wrong (sometimes even when she is wrong) so she started crying at which point the lifeguard scolded her again!

This same lifeguard was on the other hand allowing a little boy to take her rescue tube and play with it in the pool (bumping Kat several times with it when she was doing her laps) - now how professional is THAT!!

So first when Kit came home crying with Kat, I lost my cool there is something about sobbing and the inability to make out anything what is being said that truly frustrates me. After I heard the story from Kat and our nanny, I called up the resident manager and explained the situation. Sadly the lifeguard had left for the day but she has promised to talk to her tomorrow and get back to me. She says the protocol is to explain to the parents first or the adult with the children and if that does not work, parents should be contacted they are not allowed to scold children (5 years old?) directly- absolutely not their business!

Kat always likes to hear me fight for the right she says it gives her confidence so I guess something good did come out of this situation today.

Once all sorted I explained that everyone was in the wrong and no one can make that right. Kit was wrong for having acted in a way that prompted the lifeguard to get angry. Kat was wrong in having cut short her already short exercise routine and not having controlled the situation with Kit. Nanny was wrong in not having protected Kit when she was being scolded or interfered or called me. I was wrong (and surely crazy) for having trusted them all and sent them together believing everything was going to be OK!

Now that the anger is out of me, I have a severe migraine all that blood rushing did me no good. Did it?


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